What are the three rules of Love and Logic?
Adults set limits using enforceable statements. Adults regard mistakes as learning opportunities. Adults resist the temptation to “nag.”
What are the 5 principles of Love and Logic?
Most people benefit from reviewing these Love and Logic materials several times.
- Neutralizing arguing with the Brain Dead technique.
- Locking-in sadness or empathy before delivering consequences.
- Setting limits with enforceable statements.
- Sharing control through lots of small choices.
What Is The Love and Logic approach?
Love and Logic is basically a process by which children grow through their mistakes and learn from the consequences of their choices. There are 2 basic rules in Love & Logic: Adults set firm limits in loving ways without anger, lecture, threats or repeated warnings.
Is Love and Logic evidence based?
Charles Fay conducted studies on the Becoming a Love and Logic Parent® curriculum and the 9 Essential Skills for the Love and Logic Classroom® curriculum. Although there has been limited empirical research conducted on these programs, the studies do show evidence that support using Love and Logic techniques.
What are the 9 essential skills of Love and Logic?
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- Create low stress classrooms.
- Help end student arguing and back talk.
- Guide kids to own and solve their problems.
- Build positive relationships with challenging students.
- Raise test scores.
- Prevent problems and save teaching time.
How do you give empathy consequences?
Logical consequences should be:
- Respectful: Communicated with a focus on the behavior rather than a judgement about the child’s character.
- Related: Directly connected to the child’s action.
- Realistic: Something that is realistic for the student to do and for the teacher to follow through on.
Is Love and Logic gentle parenting?
It is gentle, loving and effective. It’s all about how you as an adult react to your child’s behavior.
Does Love and Logic work with ADHD?
Q: So, will Love and Logic work with my child with ADHD? A: Yes! In our CD Calming the Chaos we teach how to match the high frequency and intensity of their challenging behavior with a high frequency and intensity of Love and Logic techniques.
What are enforceable statements?
Enforceable statements tell kids what WE will do or allow rather than trying to tell THEM what to do. As a parent, you get to decide what you will provide and under what circumstances.
What is empathic discipline?
Empathic Discipline is a model of behavior management based in empathy, self-reflection, and connectedness. (It may be useful to read my post about empathy before continuing this one). While punitive discipline can be effective in increasing obedience, it often breeds resentment and can damage or weaken relationships.
Is Love and Logic a positive discipline?
Love and Logic was in the first wave of the anti-punishment books, more than twenty years ago. Their view was that instead of punishing kids, which backfires, parents should use logical consequences. This is also what Jane Nelsen, who wrote Positive Discipline, recommended at the time.
Is Love and Logic trauma informed?
Love and Logic: Adults Supporting Youth with Challenging Pasts (Trauma Informed Care) Cut through the complexity of working with youth with challenging pasts and provide real solutions that can be applied immediately.
Does spanking work for ADHD?
Spanking is a no-no in correcting misbehavior, and it is worse for a child with attention deficit disorder (ADHD or ADD). Emotional hypersensitivity is a core ADHD trait, so the physical act of spanking can lead to emotional hurt.